Because sometimes there are certain subforums that can be taken a bit more seriously than others and troll posts can be deleted upon request. I agree this isn't the greatest place, but there are some people willing to give honest advice. besides, these forums can use some serious tone every now and then.Originally Posted by Snuggles
OT: Lying is already bit of an issue as seen in the post, but let's disregard that just for a moment. It really doesn't matter if a woman has been with other guys. I suppose if the numbers are pretty damn high, well that can be pretty bad, but overall this isn't drastically terrible. It could have been worse... FAR worse. In all honesty, if she has feelings for him that are true and mutual, get them to talk it out and rationalize. If she shows that she can convey her feelings for him, that can possibly neutralize those negative thoughts he has about her, because the others she was with no longer matter and will be completely be buried in the past. However, this doesn't offset the fact that she lied about something as far as virginity-- to some, first times are special, and it was probably that that was taken straight away from him.
Only thing he can really do is attempt to rationalize with her, otherwise hearts will be even further broken. But if all else fails, it just means it's all for the better and it's time to move on.
Love is a bitch and hurts. There's no way around it.
