That's the problem actually. People care too much about what others think, and if they have a problem they should just look / move away. No one is forcing anybody to see that.
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It's important what other people think about you, ever been off your computer ?
When you go out it's important how you dress/how you do you hairs/ how you smell.
First impressions are important which means manipulating the other guy to think about you in a way.
So as I said, manipulate it so they don't think you are gay or a pervert or w/e so no one talks about you #fixed.
Lol... you do know freedom of speech doesn't cover EVERYTHING you say right ? There are certain restrictions. And really dude ? What kind of person tells the victim to put up with it ? Or tries to make the victim go out of their way to change their lifestyle ? What scenario makes more sense to you:
Heterosexual: "I don't like the way you gay people flaunt your relationships at everyone, openly kissing each other in public. No one wants to see that shit."
Homosexual: "Ok ? I'm not doing anything wrong or illegal. Sounds more like your problem. Deal with it."
or
Homosexual: "I don't like that I can't be openly happy everywhere I go. Always having to hide my relationship from everyone and having to worry about what I do and what I say or how I act. Always being negatively judged and bullied because I can't help who I am or who I'm attracted to."
Heterosexual: "Ok? I can say whatever I want I'm protected by Freedom of Speech. Deal with it. If you're offended or upset, just stop kissing your bf/gf in public and keep that shit in the bedroom. No one wants to see any of that."
?? Lol..
I mean yeah there are certain exceptions where the PDA can get to be a little disturbing (extremely passionate making out, groping each other and what not) but that shit should apply for everyone, homosexual or heterosexual. People in society follow social norms and generally by young adulthood know how to properly behave themselves in public. But just a casual kiss ? Holding hands ? Little shit like that that makes a relationship enjoyable and healthy ? Why take that happiness away from a group of people ? Seems selfish and self-centered as shit if you ask me.
#NotFixed #Really***** ? Lol... with that logic, if I have a messy ass room with clothes and junk all over the floor, but I just hide that junk in my closet and toss it half ass in there, then my problem would be "solved" and my room would be "clean" lol... Hiding the problem doesn't solve it.
It is important for you. I always live life the way I want and that's how it should be, no one has a say in it. I dress the way it pleases me.
First impressions? Manipulating the other guy? What are you saying?
Why should people manipulate others to not think I am gay or pervert? For the pervert part I do understand, but it isn't a bad thing being gay. You just like the same sex, that's it!
Got to love how people stereotype "gay" as a bad person / thing.
There are a lot of people out there who thinks of others differently no matter how there physical appearance appear or person hygiene.
I'm sure Shino and Fury would agree but here in England/United Kingdom, gay is one of the most used insult, joke or not. Can anyone figure out this logic? A lot of people think two guys slobbing each other of is wrong but when two girls do some licking action (also classed as gay), it's perfectly fine?
Speaking of which, iI haven't heard or seen any woman speak of gays in a bad, even if they are against it.
I agree with your point of view. I know it may be disgusting for some but come on, that doesn't mean we should go out there expressing how we hate someone just for them to live the way they want to. That is a totally disgusting behaviour without mentioning disrespectful. If you don't like it, you respect it. You have no say in other people's lives. You should really try to be happy your way and you'll eventually forget about it, and will probably also learn how to live with it.
Being gay is normal and that is not really their problem. "Gay" or "disgusting" or "weird" is not an inherent characteristic that a person has, it's your perception of something. This is an issue of your perception towards people making out in public for example, not an issue with people making out in public themselves. If this is a problem for you, you will eventually learn how to live and deal with it. No one really is forcing you to watch it. It's not just people making out in public in general, you're going to be "disgusted" or feel weirded out by a lot of things in your life. Best thing people could do is learn how to live with these things and to not feel disgusted or weirded out by these things.
It is not their responsibilty to change for you. Feeling weirded out by the way people behave or just for the way they are is just allowing yourself to have a poisonous mindset and it could be hurting you more than it would be hurting anyone else.
People may give the "freedom of speech" excuse to hurt another person by thinking their opinion really matters when infact it doesn't. From that point on, I don't get why people would try to verbally assault someone just because they are gay, or bisexual or whatever.