Asshole or the nice guy?

[~Firebrand~]

Voice your opinion about this, Why do you think the assholes has more of a chance of getting the girl then the nice guy?

[Brutus]

i wish it were that simple but.. its not. u can be a nice guy who's still an alpha and get the girl over the ass hole. also if girl has low self esteem/daddy issues shes more likely to go for an asshole. but people ahve too many facets to their personality so.. assuming that someone is 100% ncie or 100% ass hole wouldn't be realistic but if it was, it just depends on the girl. i'd rather be a chamelion type of fellow who just asserts himself then when i find out a littlea bout the girl, find out which one she likes. thats just for booty tho :> relationship? easy=niceguy

[Shunpo]

Apparently younger women find assholes more 'fun' :|
But as they mature, they look to seek a more stable 'nice guy' to be with

It's a horrible truth of the world. ugh. I'm depressed now.

[~Firebrand~]

Yeah, but to be completely honest, you can only state that opinion as as man, not saying that I never took it on board but the only true way you can actually answer this question with full certainty is if your a women, while I would agree otherwise apart from the relationship, I know a few girls, specifically one who's in a relationship right now, and he's such an ass-hat, I should know, he was my friend for about a year and just half year made me want to nail gun his hands to a moving elevator. Plus the fact that even if your a nice guy all the time, the girl ends up thinking of you as just a friend, and thats it, your dropped in the friend zone because they're too emotionally attached and don't want to lose that friendship... thats at least what I've learned so far.

Edit: Sorry Shunpo, just thought of the debate and wondered what others thought here. Don't worry too much though, your awesome.

[Nigel]

The asshole who just uses the girls. I was one of them

[~Firebrand~]

Tbh, I think its cause when your asshole you a clear purpose of what you want, there ass in a nutshell, IDK now though, because my friend has really made me wonder how he made it work.

[Brutus]

if you're in love with a girl that just wants to be friends, just take the loss. it takes 2 for a relationship not 1. or day by day if you really liked the girl, ignore her a little bit more everyday. then you're no longer the constant in her life, girls dun like the constantz cuz well, they're reminded of parents in most cases which young girls hate. girls tend to want spontaneity in guys, so u holding out for her for a long time or just saving yourself for her, or whatever the case might be, may actually be counter productive. l2 let go and love yourself first. that's nr1 in my book anyways

[[HxC]Mutal]

Assholes are usually dominant over their partners, and women want to be dominated to some point, this is one of the reasons girls go for the assholes. Another reason is that assholes usually are socially stronger than 'nice guys' which attracts women.

[~Firebrand~]

if you're in love with a girl that just wants to be friends, just take the loss. it takes 2 for a relationship not 1. or day by day if you really liked the girl, ignore her a little bit more everyday. then you're no longer the constant in her life, girls dun like the constantz cuz well, they're reminded of parents in most cases which young girls hate. girls tend to want spontaneity in guys, so u holding out for her for a long time or just saving yourself for her, or whatever the case might be, may actually be counter productive. l2 let go and love yourself first. that's nr1 in my book anyways

o-o I don't know whether thats pointed to anyone, but no its not that, but if its not I get what your saying cause I already did that in my last year and yeah it was annoying but life goes on. I'm generally just interested in what other people think about this, like I said, I thought about it after seeing a relationship between a douche and generally nice girl, just made me wonder how it clicked even though the clearest word that pops up in your head is "why".

[Brutus]

o-o I don't know whether thats pointed to anyone, but no its not that, but if its not I get what your saying cause I already did that in my last year and yeah it was annoying but life goes on. I'm generally just interested in what other people think about this, like I said, I thought about it after seeing a relationship between a douche and generally nice girl, just made me wonder how it clicked even though the clearest word that pops up in your head is "why".

oh okay, that's all your wondering? the answer is.......*drum roll please* Girls are dumb.